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Anonymous asked
I'm really scared, I want to masturbate. But i don't really know how. how do you personally do it? (Ps I am a girl)

I say go for it, I was terrified at first too, cause I thought what I was doing was wrong and that somehow someone would know and the world would end. But that’s not true, obviously, now I talk about it with my friends and realized everyone does it.

Try different things, figure out what feels good to you, maybe start with your fingers touching your body. One thing that’s lovely to know is what you have between your legs, and what places have the most nerve endings and will thus feel better for the most part. So what I first did to make myself comfortable with my body is I took a mirror and figured out what my vulva looked like, if you go into it with a positive attitude you can realize that it really is a lovely thing. The most sensitive area by far is the clit, which actually has “legs” that extend under your labia. You can try touching yourself and figuring out what feels good to you, I personally didn’t get an orgasm until I bought a bullet which I used on my clit, while using my fingers. Now I tend to use my rabbit vibrator which is lovely and always makes me feel good but it can be different for other people. You can try seeing if you like penetration, or more of just outer stimulation. I say just try whatever on yourself, if you have any other questions about what to use or more examples just ask me :)